Satshriakaal Mausam,
Why do I resist taking a different route to work? Why I resist trying some other chocolate than Snickers? Why I am resisting the switch to Blogger beta? Why do I avoid trying anything other than Pineapple juice.
I tried to stick with chandigarh for as long as I could. I hated Delhi when i moved from chandigarh but by the time I was about to leave Delhi, I was absolutely smitten by the place and tried to stick as long as I could.Why?
Why am I always on guard from making friends? Why all of a sudden I have started liking Boston so much even though I have hardly known the city? Why am I dreading the winters so much? Why do some people resist change more than others do?
Some people manage to fit in a new environment so smoothly that they are tuned in with the system from the word go. I think I am one of those who take time to get into something new, once I manage that, I completely put my heart and soul into it. By the time something newer comes up I am so much in love with the old thing that the cycle repeats itself again.
I want to believe that those who can easily mingle in a new setup make a superficial adjustment and do'nt really make strong relationship/connection within the new system and thatz where people like me are different and successful.Is this statement justified?
Was I always like this? Is this behavior wrong?If Yes, Can this behavior be changed?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim
Winamp playing: chorrr aaye hum woh galiyaaaan from Maachis
5 comments:
"Why am I always on guard from making friends?" -what???? dont tell me that!!!!
"Why do some people resist change more than others do?"- coz u dont like experiments on ur ownself!
"By the time something newer comes up I am so much in love with the old thing that the cycle repeats itself again"- u r right .. thats adjustments nd compromises..that u r good in this!
"make a superficial adjustment and do'nt really make strong relationship/connection" - its fine if its the materialistic things but not fair with mortals!
"Is this behavior wrong?"-not at all ...it all depends on mood and circumstances..sometimes u r like this but on other times u r not....nevermind its all natural!
enjoy each experience of life:)
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Hun kuch hor bloggo!
do u think in the same way about your job too ?
resisting change is a very basic human trait. sometimes even though the change is positive we avoid it. that is why one of my fav one liners is 'change is the only constant in life' cheers!
I've asked myself these same questions... I may resist change at first, but once I'm convinced enough to accept a change, there's no going back. I give it 110%. I guess there are pros and cons to both accepting and resisting it. Very interesting post.
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