whatz the definition of a loser?

Dear Mausam,

Dictionary.com came up with following explanations for the word loser.
1. One that fails to win: the losers of the game.
2. One who takes loss in a specified way: a graceful loser; a poor loser.
3. One that fails consistently, especially a person with bad luck or poor skills: “losers at home seeking wealth and glory in undeveloped countries” (Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr.).
4. One that is bad in quality: That book is a real loser.

Was just wondering if "I" really define the word loser. okay lets see.
Definition 1 does'nt really suit me, I am not playing any game, regading the game of life well i hav'nt reached the finish line as yet so don't know.
Definition 2 this one also does'nt really reflects my situation. So i still don't qualify for being called a loser.
Definition 3 awww..bulls-eye. this definition fits me just fine. a definition defined keeping me in mind.
I fail consistently at most things expected of me. "especially a person with bad luck or poor skills". I consider myself as God's blessed child so I don't really have bad luck but I sure possess poor skills. I did computer engineering for heaven's sake but I am still inequipped of any computer technicalities. So now I truly believe I am officially a loser.
Terming myself a loser feels so better.phew!
I was wondering why none of the singers sing any sad songs for emotions other than heartbroken in love. people feel sad about all things in the world, I would love to hear a song about someone who fails to find a creditable job for himself and thinks of himself as a loser.
This IT job thing is truly not my cup of tea and I sure have wasted enough of my mind space kicking myself by thinking about it.
Wasted enough time writing nonsense I think had i utilised my time searching for job that would have been far more beneficial.
lets hear some of the compositions by Gurdas Singh Mann, Malkit Singh and find other useful ways to waste time.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim